I know many of you have been keeping up with our story and have been praying for us today so I wanted to give you a quick update. First, I absolutely have felt your prayers today. I have been a million times stronger than I ever imagined, and I know it is because of Him and all the prayers that have been going up for us. So, thank you.
The short update from our appointment today is that the most likely diagnosis for Will is osteogenesis imperfecta (OI). The main characteristic of this disorder is fragile bones that break easily. I was not totally shocked to hear this diagnosis because I heard from two different moms this weekend that mentioned OI; one of which said her son had short, bowed femurs around the same time we saw Will's and then at her 26 week ultrasound they saw bone fractures. I was ready to ask lots of questions today about bone calcification and potential breaks, but it became apparent to me pretty early in the ultrasound that there were bone issues. The technician kept looking at one of his humerus bones (the long bone that runs from your shoulder to your elbow) and I saw that it looked grey and not totally solid. The doctor confirmed a bit later that Will does indeed have a fracture in one of his arms and also in one of his femurs. I am so sad that our little boy is dealing with broken bones in there already.
OI affects people throughout their lifetime, but particularly so when they are young and their bones are growing. It is caused by a gene mutation error that affects the body's production of collagen. There are eight different types with varying degrees of severity. They range from severe, lethal forms to mild forms with few visible symptoms. We don't know what type of OI Will has and we won't likely be sure of that until he's born and more testing can be done. His chest is still measuring small, though, which is worrisome in terms of potential severity or lethality. The doctor did say today that at this point he doesn't think it's lethal. We will keep a close eye on his chest, though, and we pray that his lungs will be able to develop enough to support normal respiration and life.
I was also beyond blessed to have been connected with a local mom that has been through a very similar diagnosis less than a year ago. I have already spoken with her on the phone and we're working on coordinating a time to meet face-to-face soon. She has been a blessing already and called me so quickly to offer support that I was still standing in line checking out at the doctor's office when I got her call. I am beyond thankful for her and can't wait to meet her and her precious family.
I will update on more details later. Please continue to pray that God will keep our little boy safe and free from pain. Thank you also for your continued prayers for us. I have totally felt God's presence and calming force over me today and it has helped beyond measure.
I've been thinking about you all day Mary, and I'm glad you felt the prayers today. You were given the strength just when you needed it. I will continue to pray for little Will (love the name by the way :) and for your family. It sounds like there was some encouraging news and how wonderful that you are in touch with someone who has been there. Big hugs and love to you!
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Hi Mary! I know of someone who has a daughter with OI. Her name is Melissa. Her daughter is Sonya. I think you should check out her blog. It is.....swartley.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteJust to let you know her daughter is BEAUTIFUL!!!! She has lots of info on OI and support for OI parents.
Best of luck to you and your family. I will continue to pray for Will.
xoxo
Leslie
Thought of you today and am so glad that you got some answers today and you have support! I will keep each of you in my prayers!
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I'm an OI mama and just wanted to say hi! Priscilla Haney put your info on our Mamas of Babies with OI page on Facebook and I am already so impressed with your strength and outlook! If it is OI, which it sounds like it could well be, you are going to find a really informative awesome group of parents online ready to help at any time! Keep up the good work mama! We are all here for you and can't wait to see your sweet little guy!
ReplyDeleteThinking about you all day Mary. So glad to read an update. You are so strong - proud to call you my friend!
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers - I was going to pass on the Swartley blog to you as well but someone's already done it. Also the blog I passed on to you the other day (http://eviejayne.blogspot.com/) - she was thought to have a lethal form of OI but it turned out to be hypophospatasia which is quite similar in some ways. I'm so glad the doctors don't think it is a lethal form and I will continue to pray for you all. xox
ReplyDeleteMary, I am so glad that you have felt the Lord's strength today. And how relieving in a way to have an initial diagnosis, with so many great people out there willing to support and help you. What an amazing age we live in that you can be experiencing something relatively rare, yet have the ability to connect with hundreds of moms who can relate to you and help you. My prayers are with you! Thanks for giving me a reason to pray and feel His love in my life, as well. God is good!
ReplyDeleteHttp://alexisoraya.tripod.com hope this link comes through. It is the story of daughter who was diagnosed with type iii mod_severe oi at unc in nov 2002. We live an hour south of you and alexi has been running since she was 14 months old. Hope to meet you. She is my inspiration. As is her brother avery http://averyboiko.tripod.com whom we adopted with oi. Both are 9.
ReplyDeleteMary, I linked over from the The Inspired Room to see your wonderful curtain rods and thought I would visit your home page to see what new projects you are up to. It sounds like God has a project and He's chosen you to help him. I add my prayers and well wishes to the others. God bless you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI was thinking of you all day and how things were going. Just read the info you post about OI and praying that is a less severe form, but I KNOW without a doubt that you are strong and this baby is mean to be in your family and you will be the best parents in the world to him. I continue to pray for your strength as well of that of little Will's. HUGS!
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